Wednesday, September 7, 2011
Nature & Nurture
The article did not cite the research though (only the podcast
did), but by the sound of it I would have to think the research was very shallow. Research is only as good as the questions that are asked. Is the amount of education one gets, and their annual income the defining
factor in a person's worth, happiness and accomplishments in life? As parents, do we evaluate our success in parenting based on how smart our kids become and how much money they earn as adults, or are these just bonuses as long as our kids are happy and well adjusted?
What parents do or don't due in terms of nurturing or raising their children can either help, not help or even damage their child's development. By instinct most parents take seriously their role as a parent, and we experience every day the value of loving our children and doing what's best for them. Maybe we struggle sometimes with how much or how little to influence our kids, and knowing what exactly they need, but overall the love and support we give them helps all that potential come alive and bare fruit.
The question is not whether Nature or Nurture is more important; it is "How can we nurture well to help them reach the potential of their true nature?"
If you want to look at some real research check out the Harvard University's Center on the Developing Child website: http://developingchild.harvard.edu/index.php/activities/council/
Posted by Cheryl Roth